Hiccup?

My former husband and I have been working together producing our annual theater showcase of one act plays. For the first time in several years, I am actually enjoying the process of working with him. Last night, I commented to one of my older lady friends, that he hadn't even annoyed me yet. She smiled and said, "It's because you're happy. You've really moved on."

Yes. It's true. And then I was tested. He's been stopping by my house to pick up our daughter for rehearsal, because she's going to run our tech. So he casually mentions that he took some of my plant pots. Excuse me, what?!? Who does that??? I told him those are mine, not his, and he can't borrow them. But I'm not 100% certain that he took my response seriously. So I'm going to have to draft a calm, polite email, letting him know - - yet again - - that the stuff at my house is my stuff, and is no longer a holding place for anything that used to be shared with him. Gee whiz, why is this so hard for him to understand??? Fortunately, this makes me laugh and shake my head more than inciting anger or agitation, which it used to do. This time, it literally cracked me up. *sigh*